I am a divorced mom of 3 small children with joint custody so cannot be 24/7 sub as I am also a freelancer.

I was just starting in the bdsm scene 8-9 years ago and then I met my ex husband almost 7 years ago who wasn't.

I am shy and don't have a high pain tolerance. I love sensory deprovation, blindfolded, tied up. going to a club and being told what to do. being told how to dress for a date.

that is the extent of my experience. I've had candle wax and spankings and small things but wanting to have my horizons expanded

Kos